Do we have more than one tribe?


You become more of who you’re meant to be, by sharing yourself authentically with others.

Becoming more of “who you know you really are” and making your greatest contribution through sharing your gifts is all about finding your team; your tribe.

It’s less about running a solo race and more about trusting in others to support what you want to do and be in life.

Many of us have spent years struggling in isolation, trying to break away from old patterns.

You may have a deep and passionate desire to deliver your true creativity to the world.

You may appear to have wonderfully supportive friends and family members, but your inner experience still feels like you are alone.

And often part of the problem is that you may beat yourself up for not being able to do it alone.

What if these challenges to your true potential weren’t caused by any personal inadequacy, but rather was the result of not having enough real support in your life.

Real support looks like this –

1. Being with people who know where you’re coming from.

2. Being with people who also share their authentic self with you.

3. Being with people who celebrate your wins and understand that mistakes are also essential to living a socially and spiritually fulling life.


Finding Your Tribe

In this new era of consciousness, people are ‘waking up’ at a profoundly rapid rate. ‪ If you’re one of these newly awakened souls, chances are you’ve outgrown many areas of your life. Suddenly your career, lifestyle, relationships, and even entire friendship circles can feel foreign, so it’s an understatement to say you probably feel a little isolated.

Especially as you dive deep into an ocean of questions like…

Why am I here?

Where did we actually come from?

What is my higher purpose?

Be assured, if you’re embarking on an “awakened journey”, you are right where you need to be and finding your tribe is indeed a fundamental part of that journey. Here are some tips on consciously calling in your TribeTalkers©, the ones that fit your new reality and will support you on your journey.

Eight Keys To Calling In Your Tribe.

1. Be The Real Deal

Simply put ‘You need to be the Real Deal’… Before you can fully connect with your tribe you must know who you are and be living a life in alignment with that truth. You will attract like-minds – but they may be people who are simply matching what you are projecting out into the world. So if that’s an innocent mask of people pleasing, control or enabling, you’re connections will likely be of a similar nature.

2. Make Distinctions

Understand that the roles people have played in your life have given you a greater understanding and experience of life. Make distinctions around your spiritual growth, personal development, empowerment, and personal responsibility. Often blame justifies our current “Messy” or “Bland” lifestyle and can be a wonderful excuse for not creating what we really want. When you take full responsibility for your life, your past and your current relationships, it creates an awareness for authentic connection – your tribe won’t put up with B.S – they’ll hold you accountable to being the best version of you, call you on your stuff and inspire you to evolve, expand and fully come into being.

3. Identify And Clarify

Make a conscious decision about who you want to be for yourself and where you are heading, what you want and don’t want for your future, create the life and people around you who support that – many times you know what you don’t want because you’ve experienced it. Now its time to focus on what really works for your soul.

4. Review Your Relationships

Recognise old relationships that no longer serve who you wish to be – this doesn’t mean they are ‘bad’ or what they are choosing to do with their lives is wrong. Know that it takes a commitment to yourself to fosters the best version of you and to create boundaries around who influences your life.

5. Edify And Unify Your Connections

Identify the kindred spirits already in your life that support your highest evolution and consciously edify and unify those friendships, they are part of your tribe.

6. End Relationships That Hinder

Cut energetic ties that bind you to the past and to old ideas about who you think you are, and who others think you are. Allow yourself to be who you want to be from this moment forward and only create and sustain relationships that nourish and support this.

7. Add Value And Shine

Correct and transform any personal behavior that lowers your vibration and observe how you attract people who keep mirroring negative beliefs. Give yourself permission to shine. This may require gently re-educating some people about who you are as you evolve.

8. Raise Your Resonance

Call in your TribeTalkers© by becoming a vibrational match for who and what you want to attract into your life. If you want creative people who respect you and share an aligned vision, ask yourself:

  • Am I expressing my creativity?
  • Do I respect myself?
  • Am I clearly living my dreams and desires?

In Summary – You Must Recognize Your Tribe When You Find Them 

Understand how to recognise your TribeTalkers© when you connect with them. Be Brave, Be Real Be Present and notice when someone feels good to you energetically and take action to follow up the connection. Hint – If someone keeps on coming into your consciousness, chances are there’s a reason.

So, if you desire people in your life who…

  • understand who you ‘really’ are
  • who are in ‘your conversation’
  • inspire you to be a better person
  • restore your faith in humanity
  • make you feel appreciated, valued, and deeply understood…

Take the pledge to be the real deal, welcome these concepts into your life and your TribeTalkers© will be waiting on the other side.

Elizabeth Ellames

Trust + Truth = Unity

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Learning the importance of being connected and staying connected with people with whom you resonate with, is in fact what builds an effective community.

Trust + Truth = Unity

And It’s through our frequency of interaction and transparency, which eventually creates true prosperity. This is our new currency that also leads to greater levels of human resources.

At this level of connection, we enter a higher level of possibility and creativity, which is the nature and desire of the TribeTalker.

The only intention of the TribeTalker is to reach higher ground. They are the forward-thinking business owners, life coaches, trainers, students, presenters, and entrepreneurs, who want to see a change in our world by genuinely helping each other succeed.

Do you want to highlight your talents and promote your personal brand, through the power of edifying and unifying people?

If so, you are indeed part of this emerging breed of new style leaders.

Elizabeth is excited to be the facilitator of an authentic and amazing new way of being in a relationship, business and community.

We show you how your ability to share your life experiences with others gives you clarity and confidence to effectively share other people’s stories, which creates a currency between people that promotes true prosperity. This new way of being takes us out of the old Silo paradigm that promotes scarcity to a new and vibrant Tribe paradigm that promotes there is always enough, if we share.

And I genuinely believe we need to thank our bright new generation of individuals for this shift, they have arrived at the table with the thought provoking message…

“I don’t care what you know, until I know that you care”.

What a great way to live in relationship, business and community, which fits perfectly with the TribeTalkers creed of “We are what we share and we share if we care”

Look forward to meeting you at one of our events in the future 🙂


Elizabeth Ellames